GREAT LESSONS
1 - Most Important
Lesson
During my second month of nursing school, our professor gave us
a pop quiz.
I was a conscientious student and had breezed through
the
questions, until I read the last one:
"What is
the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"
Surely
this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman
several
times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s,but how would
I know
her name?
I handed in my paper, leaving the last question
blank.
Just before class ended, one student asked if the last
question would
count toward our quiz
grade.
"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers,
you will meet
many people. All are significant.
They deserve
your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and
say
'hello'."
"I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned
her name was
Dorothy.
2 - Second Important
Lesson - Pickup in the Rain
One night, at 11:30 PM, an older African
American woman was standing
on the side of an Alabama highway trying
endure a lashing rain storm.
Her car had broken down and she
desperately needed a ride. Soaking
wet, she decided to flag down the
next car. A young white man stopped
to help her, generally unheard of
in those conflict-filled 1960s. The
man took her to safety, helped her
get assistance and put her into a
taxi cab. She seemed to be in a big
hurry, but wrote down his address
and thanked
him.
Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's
door.
To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his
home.
A special note was attached. It read:
Thank
you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night.
The rain
drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came
along.
Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's
bedside
just before he passed away. God bless you for helping me
and
unselfishly serving others."
Sincerely, Mrs. Nat
King Cole.
3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those
who serve.
In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10
year old boy
entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress
put a glass
of water in front of him. "How much is an ice cream
sundae?" he asked.
"Fifty cents," replied the waitress. The little boy
pulled his hand
out of his pocket and studied the coins in it. "Well,
how much is a
plain dish of ice cream" he inquired. By now more people
were waiting
for a table and the waiter was growing impatient.
"Thirty-five
cents," she brusquely replied."
The little boy
again counted his coins. "I'll have the plain ice
cream," he
said.
The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the
table and
walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier
and
left. When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped
down
the table.
There, placed neatly beside the
empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies.
You see, he
couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left
to leave
her a tip.
4 - Fourth Important Lesson - The Obstacle in Our
Path
In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then
he
hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge
rock.
Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and
simply
walked around it. Many loudly blamed the king for not keeping
the
roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of
the way.
Then a peasant came along carrying a load of
vegetables. Upon
approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his
burden and tried
to move the stone to the side of the road. After much
pushing and
straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked
up his load of
vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where
the boulder had been.
The purse contained many gold coins and
a note from the king
indicating that the gold was for the person who
removed the boulder
from the roadway.
The peasant
learned what many of us never understand. Every obstacle
presents an
opportunity to improve our condition.
5 - Fifth Important
Lesson - Giving When it Counts
Many years ago, when I worked as a
volunteer at a hospital, I got to
know a little girl named Liz who was
suffering from a rare and
serious disease.
Her only
chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from
her 5-year
old brother, who had miraculously survived the same
disease and had
developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness.
The
doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked
the
little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his
sister.
I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a
deep breath and
saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save her.." As the
transfusion
progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as
we all did,
seeing the color returning to her
cheeks.
Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He
looked up at the
doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start
to die right
away?" Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the
doctor;
he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his
blood
in order to save her.
You see, after all,
understanding and attitude, are doing...are you
willing to give your
all?